The holidays often exacerbate the stressors of relationships. Many times couples find themselves arguing during the holidays over the very things that should be keeping them together. Common holiday conflicts include: where to spend the holidays, how much to spend on presents, in-laws, prep work and cleaning duties, movies vs football, politics, expectations… the list goes on. So how can you and your partner be prepared for these common conflicts and turn towards each other instead of against each other this year? Healthy Communication and problem solving! What does that look like?